Many of you have heard my sermons before and are aware that they are often inspired from movies and films. Today, I am going to do something a bit different: I am going to highlight a Broadway musical. Last Saturday I had the exciting opportunity to attend a Broadway musical that I have been wanting to see for a very long time. What was even more special is that I attended the show with one of my co-workers – along with her mother – for what was her first ever Broadway musical. It was a truly delightful experience.

           This particular production of the musical centers around a young woman named Bobby on her 35th birthday. She is single and most of her friends are married. Her friends surprise her with a birthday cake and tell her she must make a wish before blowing out the candles. But before that, the musical takes us through various scenes in which Bobby interacts with all her friends. She has friends who have been married for a long time and are still very much in love. She has friends who are about to get a divorce and are okay with their decision. She is also friends with a gay male couple that is about to get married even while one of the partners is getting cold-feet. And then she is friends with a woman who has been divorced several times and helps Bobby realize that she should not be pressured to be a certain way; that life is worth living whether you are single, married, or divorced.

           For those of you who have absolutely no idea what Broadway musical I am spotlighting, you should know that I am discussing the musical titled Company that was first performed back in 1970 and was composed by one of the greatest Broadway composers ever: Stephen Sondheim – who died three years ago. Now, it is the ending of this musical that might help us understand our Gospel lesson for this morning. Right before Bobby blows out the candles and makes her birthday wish, she recognizes that the most important thing in life is to celebrate and cherish being alive – and more significantly, being alive so as to give of oneself to others in some capacity. But as Bobby blows out the candles, the musical leaves us as the viewers to decide whether Bobby wishes to become married or to remain single. That question seems to be precisely the point of the show. To give of oneself to others and to share in life with another does not necessarily mean that one must be married. Society places many expectations on everyone that we are all supposed to find “the one” and then get married. But for a lot of people, our experiences are definitely not as cut-and-dry. Society’s rules often do not make sense to many people’s lived experiences.

           In the Gospel text, Jesus is presented with the “rules.” Here, Jesus is confronted by the Pharisees who question him regarding a law from Moses regarding divorce. Now the Pharisees already know the law; they are the legal scholars. They are not so much concerned about what the law says, but rather in trying to condemn Jesus in some way. Jesus – in all His infinite wisdom – sees right through their trap. Before he recites the actual law of Moses to them – which he knows they already know – he begins by explaining that because of the hardness of their hearts, this law was given to them.

           Now what on earth does this mean; hardness of their hearts? To answer that question, perhaps the Holy Spirit invites us to consider a different and unique perspective on this text. It is an outsider’s perspective – which is to say, it is a take on the text from the viewpoint of people whom this Gospel passage has often been used to ignore and reject. To begin, let’s look at two figures in the Bible: Jesus and St. Paul. When we read about Jesus in our Bibles, we read of a man who apparently never married. The fact that Jesus Himself did not get married reveals that his own life did not fit quite neatly within the prevailing standards of the day under this law and this seems to be large part of the reason why the Pharisees question him. St. Paul, whose writings make up much of the New Testament – some of which actually predate the four Gospels – wrote that it was better for individuals to remain celibate and never marry. He is another New Testament figure whose life did not accord 100% with this particular law from the Hebrew Bible.

           The fact of the matter is that this particular law was not written to speak to the lives of many, many human beings: celibate people, divorced people, women who are treated secondary to men – and unfortunately, we must wrestle with the fact that this law does make a presumption that women are somehow secondary to men – and also for those of us who are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender. Regrettably, this law and this particular Gospel text has been used throughout Christian history to marginalize, reject, and ignore people whose lives might not conform to its particular context. Yet, in the passage, Jesus’ response to the Pharisees is telling. He essentially tells them that they are not able to see God’s way, that they have a hardness in their hearts, and that they only see the human way. God’s way is to include people, rather than to exclude; a love that is boundless. The real purpose and spirit of the Law of Moses was to highlight the reality that life is not to be lived in isolation; that we are supposed to give of ourselves to others. This giving of ourselves to others and thus being a blessing to others is what stewardship is all about. Holy stewardship does not begin with the question of what amount of money to pledge to the church and it is not like some sort of investment portfolio where we should expect returns on our stocks and mutual funds. Rather, the starting point is recognizing our own potential to be a blessing to other human beings. Naturally, the most intimate of human relationships in which we give of ourselves to another is the intimacy within the confines of a marriage. But we certainly need not be married, or a man, or straight, to give of ourselves to others; all of us are included in this. Considering this, we might see Christ as presenting the Pharisees a choice: to choose the human way that is exclusive and leaves a lot of people out, or to choose the way that is inclusive. God’s way – the one that Jesus seems to wish they would choose – is the inclusive way; a holy and inclusive stewardship that values all human beings.

           As we read this Gospel lesson, we are also presented with the same choice Jesus was presenting the Pharisees. It is the same choice that comes at the end of the Broadway musical Company: is there only one way to fit into the world and to be included? Or is life more expansive than that? God’s gift of life demands that we recognize how we are to live our lives as a blessing to others – and in a way that is more inclusive and welcoming, rather than rejecting. As Christians, when we uncover this reality we can begin to discover what Holy Stewardship is – giving of ourselves to others – and in so doing, we can bring forth the Kingdom of God on this earth in the here and now.

           Throughout this stewardship season here at St. Christopher’s, may the Holy Spirit reveal to each of us the inclusive way of Christ to give of our selves to others and be a blessing to other people.

And I have said these words to you in the name of the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Amen.            


By Paula Jefferson December 8, 2025
By Tanya Eiserer November 23, 2025
We all look for something to steer for us. My mom often said, “Be careful what you wish for”. She never explained what it meant…she didn’t have to. Often, when we wish for something, there are unintended consequences. I’m an early-adapter with all things technology. When self-driving cars became a thing, it was at the top of my wish list. And then one night, my car downloaded a software update that allowed me to try fully self-driving mode for thirty days. Free. They were speaking my language. Much of the time, that software worked beautifully. But one night I was driving home from the church…through the Fort Worth mix-master. At the best of times, the mix-master is a test of faith. That night, I realized…a little too late…that my car didn’t “see” vehicles merging from my right at highway speeds. A car darted in front of me at 55mph. My car panicked. It slammed on the brakes, forcing everyone behind me to do the same. Tires were squealing and I may have said a few choice words. Then a calm robotic voice came through my speaker: “What just happened?” Without thinking, I answered, “We’re all going to need clean clothes!”—a reminder that trusting the wrong kind of power can create more chaos than good. Three thousand years ago, the Israelites faced a similar challenge. They had judges—and they had Yahweh—but they were not satisfied. The nations around them had kings and queens…and Israel longed for a visible symbol of power: a government that looked strong and invincible to their neighbors. “Give us a king,” they said, “like other nations.” [1] Samuel warned them: “…in that day you will cry out because of your king, whom you have chosen for yourselves; but the Lord will not answer you in that day” [2] Be careful what you wish for. God’s warning is clear: the king you want will take more from you than he gives. And history shows it. Saul and David and their successors ruled. But, human power systems fail…they always have…we are no strangers to that in our own time. After Solomon, the kingdom split into the northern kingdom of Israel and the southern kingdom of Judah. Leaders often sought their own gain instead of tending to the people, especially the most vulnerable. By Jeremiah’s time, Judah itself teetered on collapse. Yet God speaks through the prophet, offering hope, promise, and vision of restoration. “I will gather the remnant of my flock…I will raise up shepherds over them who will shepherd them, and they shall not fear any longer. The days are surely coming, says the Lord, when I will raise up for David a righteous Branch, and he shall reign wisely and shall execute justice and righteousness in the land.” [3] Jeremiah is speaking God’s words here—a promise of a king unlike any human ruler. Not a king who exploits or coerces, but a shepherd who tends the scattered, who watches over the vulnerable, and who leads with justice and care. Luke shows us that shepherd in the most unexpected place: on a cross. Even there, Christ gathers the lost and welcomes the outsider—the very people no one expects to matter. Colossians describes the cosmic dimension of this shepherd—the One who reigns over all creation and reconciles all things through love. This shepherd’s kingdom is not defined by force—but by mercy; not by fear—but by reconciliation; not by scarcity—but by eternal gift. And here is the Advent connection: the King we await is already among us—reigning in ways that the world does not expect—and has never expected. Christ’s reign is not deferred to the end times. It is now. For those who long for a dramatic return of Jesus…scrutinizing hidden messages and timetables…be careful what you wish for. Christ’s reign is not waiting on a cosmic clock. It is already present, entrusted to us --the mystical Body of Christ-- in this world, in this moment. And that realization is sobering. Because if Christ reigns through mercy, reconciliation, and self-giving love, then we—his Body—are called to reign in that way too. In our families, we are called to speak truth in love and care for one another. In our workplaces and communities, we are called to act justly, to lift up the vulnerable, to speak for those without voice, and to forgive the one who has wronged us. In the simple moments of everyday life—offering a kind word, feeding the hungry, welcoming the outsider—we participate in the Shepherd’s reign. Advent invites us to practice that reign, to trust that heart, to embody God’s kingdom in the everyday moments of our lives. We all look for something to steer for us. Christ the King reminds us: the safest driver is not me…or a throne…or even a Tesla. The only true driver is God. In Advent, we learn to let go, trust God, and follow, even when the road ahead is uncertain. Thanks be to God. [1] 1 Samuel 8:5 [2] 1 Samuel 8:10-18 [3] Jeremiah 23:3-5
By Paula Jefferson November 2, 2025
It has only been a few months since we last heard this particular Gospel reading. While I was driving up and down Highway 35 last week, I thought about how we might approach the text differently…especially on All Saints Sunday. This is the day we remember all the faithful people who have gone before us…ordinary and extraordinary folks who lived lives of love, mercy, courage and hope. I began with questions: Who is a saint? Who is not a saint? The second question is much easier to answer. We can all think of people throughout history who would definitely not fit any definition of sainthood. But the other question is harder. It brought to mind a character who wears a red suit, big white beard, moves around in a sleigh pulled by reindeer. Santa Claus is an icon of generosity. But is that the fullness of a saintly life? We often admire people for what shines outwardly: strength, beauty, power, fame, athleticism, traveling the globe on Christmas Eve delivering millions of gifts…because that stuff is easy to see and easy to glorify. But Luke is reminding us that true blessedness looks very different…it is found in the poor, the hungry, those who mourn. Blessed are those who are rejected or marginalized because they embody love…feeding the hungry, forgiving enemies, speaking truth to power. Paraphrasing Jesus: Blessed are you who are living in such a way that your life looks like mine. So what are the signs of a Christ-shaped--or saintly--life? To answer that, I drew from Jesus’s sermon on the Plain and a few well-known saints. 1. Humility —Jesus said, “Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God.” Richard Foster devoted his life to guiding Christians into deeper spiritual formation. He described humility as the freedom to see ourselves truthfully, to rely fully on God, and to serve others without seeking recognition. [1] Humility reflects the blessedness of those who recognize their dependence on God. 2. Courage —Jesus said, “But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.” Dietrich Bonhoeffer devoted his life to following Christ faithfully in a world that was in moral and political crisis. He said that moral courage is nurtured in the context of faithful Christian community. Courage is faithfully doing what is right, trusting God’s guidance, even when it costs us. [2] His moral courage exemplifies living faithfully in the face of evil. 3. Joy —Jesus said, “Blessed are you who hunger now, for you will be satisfied…Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh.” Henri Nouwen devoted his life to helping others encounter God’s love through prayer, presence, and compassionate service…especially alongside the most vulnerable among us. He said that joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day. It is a choice based in the knowledge that we belong to God and have found in God our refuge and our safety and that nothing, not even death, can take God away from us. [3] 4. Love and mercy in action — Jesus said, “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Mother Teresa devoted her life to making Christ’s love tangible through service to the poorest, sickest, and most marginalized people in the world. For her, love was not an abstract idea—it was what you do with your hands and heart every day. She incarnated mercy in action, making tangible the call to bless and serve others. 5. Faithfulness in difficulty —Jesus said, “Blessed are you when people hate you, and when they exclude you, revile you, and defame you on account of the Son of Man.” Martin Luther King, Jr. devoted his life to pursuing justice and equality through nonviolence and love rooted in faith and moral conviction. He said, “The ultimate measure of a [person] is not where they stand in moments of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at times of challenge and controversy.” [4] His nonviolent witness and moral perseverance reflect Jesus’ promise of blessing for those who are persecuted and remain steadfast in their faith. There’s something of a paradox here that drew my attention. Each of these Christ-shaped lives emerged in response to real suffering, injustice or need. If Christianity had not moved through a period of superficial evangelism in the 20 th Century, we would not know Richard Foster. Without Adolf Hitler and the evil that surrounded him, we would not know Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s name. He would be a little-known academician teaching systematic theology. Without societies that toss aside people with disabilities, Henri Nouwen would have been a Roman Catholic priest none of us knew. Without human class systems that devalue whole groups of people, Mother Teresa would not be a household name. Without systemic racism, Martin Luther King, Jr. would have been a Baptist preacher in an Atlanta Church. We would not know his name. Each of these people responded to the wounds and injustices they saw in their own time in their own backyard. They took up the cross of love and carried it just a little farther. And I wonder if that quality is the benchmark of sainthood? As I look around this congregation, I see 100 saints: people who walk into classrooms every day, prepared to teach growing minds; people who walk with friends going through difficulties like loss of memory; people who feed the hungry: with meals on wheels, Union Gospel Mission, food pantries in Fort worth, and in leper colonies far away; people who make bed rolls for the homeless; Sunday School teachers who faithfully prepare to help children, youth, and adults grow in faith. People who extend hospitality to us and to St. Matthew’s and to families who gather here to celebrate the lives of their saints. Friends, we live in a very challenging era of American life. Everywhere we look, we see signs of division, misunderstanding, and an inability to work together for the common good. It is, I think, a reflection of a deep dysfunction in our culture….an incapacity to listen well, to negotiate in good faith, and to compromise for the sake of the whole. In times like this, the calling of the Church is extraordinary. We are called to embody the values of God’s reign: faithfulness, humility, courage, joy, and love---showing the world what it means to live differently, even when society struggles to do so. We, too, must take up the cross of love in our own lives, carrying it just a little farther each day. And as we do, we join the great communion of saints who have walked before us, who have borne witness to God’s love in times of trial, and who now cheer us on as we continue the journey. [1] Richard J Foster; Celebration of Discipline: The Path to Spiritual Growth [2] Dietrich Bonhoeffer; Life Together [3] Henri Nouwen; Spirituality & Practice [4] Martin Luther King, Jr; Strength to Love 1963
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