A few weeks ago, I was hanging out with friends on a Sunday afternoon. Our conversation drifted into trading family war stories. We were having a good time one-upping each other with tales of “Who done me wrong’….. Oh, your sibling did that? Well, my sibling did this!”  I’ll bet we wrote five country songs that afternoon.  All we needed was a guitar and a tune.


 

Last week—and this week—Matthew puts the notion of ekklesia front and center. 


We’ve talked it about ekklesia recently. It is the Greek word for a congregation, a people like us, who are called to be in community, not for just any old purpose but to respond together to God’s calling. 


Peter starts today’s conversation: “Jesus, If another member of the congregation sins against me, how often should I forgive?’ Before Jesus can answer, Peter suggests the number seven. Should I forgive as many as 7 times?


Jesus gives Peter a numerical response and then he tells us a story. It’s a story that is as relevant today as it was the day Jesus told it.


A guy, who I’m going to call Joe, owes a large sum of money. Payment is demanded, but Joe has loaned the money to other people and he doesn’t have it. Before the lender throws Joe into debtor’s prison, Joe falls on his knees and begs for patience so that he can repay the loans. 

The lender does an extraordinary thing: he releases Joe and forgives 100% of the debt. Clean slate.


What does Joe do with this amazing gift?


On his way out of the lender’s office, Joe bumps into somebody he loaned money to and he demands repayment of the money. Joe no longer owes this money to his lender but he intends to collect it and put it in his own pocket. The borrower falls on his knees and begs Joe to have patience, just as Joe had done. But Joe will not forgive the debt. He will not pay forward the gift of forgiveness.


Amy-Jill Levine says, “In a first-century context, sinners are individuals who have removed themselves from the common welfare, who look to themselves rather than to the community.”[1]   


Said a bit differently, when forgiveness is lacking in community, it is comfortable to receive God’s Grace and forgiveness and be unconcerned or even unwilling to give that same gift to those who’ve wronged us. 


On the back porch, our “Somebody done somebody wrong” songs were gaining energy like a wild fire until someone said, “The hardest two words to say are ‘I’m sorry.’” 


Those words are filled with vulnerability.


Every Sunday, we—as a congregation-- kneel together before God, we confess our sins, and we receive God’s forgiveness. We are a forgiven people.

The question Jesus puts before us today is this: How are we paying forward the gift of God’s forgiveness in our congregation and in our community?


Yesterday, St. Christopher’s had a mutual ministry review. It’s a time when a facilitator helps the vestry and priest evaluate our work together. Early in our day, the facilitator said, “Most conflict within a church is associated with change”.


That’s a scary thought because we’ve had a whole lot of change in recent years. We’ve navigated COVID, loss of leadership, loss of parishioners, loss of stuff, and we’ve welcomed new leadership, new parishioners, and we routinely, intentionally create change: new programming, new opportunities to intersect with our community and on and on.


Every step of the way, we challenge one another’s vision of what it means to be “church”…ekklesia. 


Some days we step on one other’s toes.


And those are the moments we are called to forgive over and over until we freely pay forward the gift of God’s forgiveness we have received. Jesus says this is what the kingdom of heaven is like where God’s gifts are received and re-gifted over and over again.


If our community is sitting on its back porch today singing a song about us, what is the song you hope they’re singing?


 
[1] Amy-Jill Levine; Short Stories by Jesus: the Enigmatic Parables of a Controversial Rabbi p36.

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The Feast of the Transfiguration is August 6th of each year. The Transfiguration is also celebrated each year on the Last Sunday After the Epiphany as the culmination of a series of events in which Jesus is manifested as the Anointed One, the Messiah, the Son of God. And that is fitting, for it is indeed an epiphany, a manifestation or showing forth of God in Christ. It is, perhaps, the most vivid such manifestation in the Gospels, at least prior to the Resurrection. Indeed, it seems to be a prefiguration, or a foretaste, of the resurrection appearances, and even a foretaste of the more direct vision of God that we hope to enjoy for all eternity when, as St. Paul tells us, we shall see him not as through a glass, darkly, but face to face. It must have been quite an experience for Peter, James, and John; one that they would never forget. In fact, Peter refers to it in the passage we read in today's Epistle. Very likely it's a story Peter often told to the early Christians. It was really something to see Jesus talking with those long-dead heroes of the faith, Moses and Elijah. Did you ever stop to wonder how they knew it was Moses and Elijah? How could they have known, except that God must have inspired them with this knowledge. But then, seeing Moses and Elijah wouldn't have been half as awesome as seeing the transfigured Jesus Christ – someone they knew well, with whom they had traveled and shared meals and conversed day after day. No wonder we are told that Peter didn't know what he was saying! And then a cloud came and overshadowed them, and they heard the voice of God: “This is my Son, the Beloved; with him I am well pleased; listen to him!” Well! There couldn't have been a clearer manifestation, a clearer statement from God of just who Jesus was. “This is my Son, the Beloved.” Just in case they hadn't understood this before, God makes it perfectly clear. Let's focus now on what God said next: “Listen to him!” Our NRSV translation has an exclamation point after that sentence – as well it should. These three words could form the basis for numerous sermons and countless meditations. Listen to him. We can't go wrong if we just listen to Jesus. We would do well to make these words our focus: “Listen to him!” How do we do that? Does Jesus still speak to us? When and where does Jesus speak to us? There are probably a lot of answers to that question, but here are just a few. Jesus speaks to us in the words of Holy Scripture, and especially in the words of the four Gospels, which tell us about his life and teachings. Spending a little time each day with our Bibles – reading, praying, and thinking about what Jesus is saying to us in these words – will certainly contribute a great deal toward our ability to “listen to him,” to hear his voice. We are fortunate to belong to a Christian tradition that encourages us to search the Scriptures for meaning and that embraces the possibility that there may be many different meanings for a passage from the Bible. We should take advantage of that freedom and open ourselves to the possibility of transfiguration. Jesus also speaks to us through other people. Our Christian friends have much to say that can inspire us. That’s why we study in groups and worship in groups and often carry out our ministries in groups. Jesus also calls to us through people who are in need. He said, “Whatever you do for the least of these my brothers and sisters, you do unto me.” He also says whatever we don’t do for them, we don’t do for him. We can help in many ways but God sends people into our lives each day. The child in the detention center, the woman who was abused as a child, the veteran struggling with PTSD, those who rely on 4Saints & Friends Food Pantry, families whose hearts are made glad by Laundry Love, those suffering from leprosy who are cared for and fed because of Hopewallah. The “least of these” might be one who says, “I was down in the dumps and you smiled at me?” I had the privilege of serving as Interim Rector at St. John’s Church in Jackson Hole, Wyoming. St. John’s Church owns about an acre of land in Grand Teton National Park and on it sits The Chapel of the Transfiguration. Gay was commissioned to write an icon to be displayed on the wall of the chapel. She had several patterns she was considering. I took the examples with me to the weekday Eucharist on day and asked Lou, one of our regular attendees at that service, which one she liked best. She looked at them and pointed to one with some enthusiasm. “That one!” she said. “What is it about that one?” I asked. She said, “In that one, Jesus and the disciples are not only ascending the mountain, they are also coming down.” I told Gay and that is the pattern she used. You see, Lou’s husband was a mountain climber. He ascended Mt. Everist with Jim Whitaker. But he didn’t come down. He lost his life there. For Lou, it was very personal and very important to remember that Jesus, Peter, James, and John came down, came back, continued on their journey. Jesus spoke to Gay and me through Lou! And here's one more way that we might hear Jesus speaking to us: in the silence. Do you remember the story of Elijah waiting for God in the cave? “Now there was a great wind, so strong that it was splitting mountains and breaking rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind was an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake was a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a sound of sheer silence.” What kind of a sound does sheer silence make? I think we all remember an earlier translation that said: “a still small voice.” We know what that sounds like, don't we? And perhaps it is the same thing, because it is all too easy to drown out that still small voice with wind and earthquake and fire and the like. Maybe we need to tune out and turn off before we can begin to listen. Turn off the TV for a while, sign off on the Internet, and, most of all, tune out the internal noise that is the hardest of all to still. To put it bluntly, we need to shut up once in a while, even in our prayers. The kind of prayer where we talk to God and tell him about our life and how it is going and the things we are worried about and so forth, is good, but there comes a time when we need to stop even doing that, and just listen. Is it possible to sit still and listen for five minutes? Then do that. Then maybe you can go for10 or 15 or even 20 minutes. If the internal noise starts up again, bring yourself back to the silence with some small word like “Listen” or just “Jesus.” What sound will you hear in the silence? When our ears are opened to listen for the divine voice, what we hear may be an epiphany we ne.  The Holy Spirit is actively at work in the world, our SaviorJesus Christ is with us every moment, until the end of the ages, just as he promised he would be. We must simply take the time to listen, and to look for the one who is the light of the world, the one whose light we shall one day see face to face. As St. Peter tells us in today's reading: “You will do well to be attentive to this as to a lamp shining in a dark place, until the day dawns and the morning star rises in your hearts.” Amen 1
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