Like many people, Amazon delivers to my home on a regular basis. This time of year, it’s not uncommon for Dursey and I to discover several boxes on the front porch. But once a month, there is a box especially for the dog.  The box always contains two seasonally appropriate toys and two bags of dog treats suitable for Dursey. In November, Dursey received a squeaky turkey and a squeaky can of cranberry jelly.


Even though these boxes only come once a month, Dursey always recognizes “his” box. I’ve often wondered if they soak the cardboard in bacon grease!  He goes crazy with anticipation. Before we can do anything else, the box has to be taken to the kitchen and opened.

It is worth the $20 a month to see him wild with joy.


Today we heard from Paul’s first letter to the Church in Corinth. On his second evangelism tour, he traveled from Jerusalem to the major cities of his time: Antioch, Thessalonica, Ephesus, Athens, and Corinth. 


Years later, Paul wrote to the church in Corinth because it was becoming fractious. Several leaders emerged within the community and the people were choosing one leader over another.  It was becoming a political mess.


[The Rev. Dr.] Jane Patterson, who taught scripture at Seminary of the Southwest, said that the crux of Paul’s letter to the Corinthians is, “The emptying of power for another is the manifestation of Christ-like behavior.”  It is a theme that connects to the birth of Christ.


The opening of Paul’s letter is a Christological masterpiece.


He says, “We have received Christ—and in every way we have been enriched in him. We do not lack any spiritual gift as we await the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ.”   


It sounds like a contradictory timeline:  we have received Christ; we are in Christ and we await Christ.


Paul is saying that we are—even now—fully in the life of Christ. We are here, in this messy world of ours, and we are in God. We are at once in a world of limitation and awed to see the limitless within the limited.[1]


In the moment of Incarnation, Christ empties himself, takes on human flesh and enters our world. He does not come with a crown and scepter. He comes humbly. He takes on the limitations of our world even though Christ is limitless.


The monthly dog toys are not durable enough for a bird dog. And so we learned to play hide and seek with them. Every evening, Dursey goes to the mantle where I keep one of his toys. He points at the toy and whine in a shrill pitch that feels like crystal is definitely shattering somewhere. And then our hide and seek game begins. 


It is this activity that he craves when the box arrives. The box signifies to Dursey that we will play every evening together. It is a joyful ritual we both anticipate.


The Church begins a new year today. Advent I is a beginning point—we turn our eyes toward the manger and the gift of life. On this day, we light the first candle of Advent—the candle of Hope.


It is Hope that pierces darkness and lights our path toward the manger. 


And so I wondered, on a day that we celebrate divine Hope, how does Paul’s message connect with Hope? How do our lives manifest Christ-like behavior now…even as we await the coming of Christ?


Every time I have a deep conversation with the people of our congregation, I learn something new about us. At our last vestry meeting, I learned that one of our members has been involved with a food pantry on the west side of Fort Worth for many years. And another vestry member has been involved with CCA in southwest Fort Worth for a long time. We also have volunteers who participate with 4Saints Food pantry on the east side of Ft Worth. 


Through these ministries, we help feed hundreds of people every week. When we pour out our power—our privilege—to feed hungry people, we reveal Christ. “I was hungry and you gave me something to eat.” Matthew 25:35


The people we feed do not know whether you and I speak English, whether we find our clothes at Neiman Marcus or Goodwill; they do not know our sexuality or gender; they do not know the color of our hands; they do not know whether we sing soprano, alto, bass, or tenor.


What they do know is that they were hungry and we gave them something to eat. They come seeking food. They leave with much more. The bags of food signify something much greater—they point toward the Hope that is Christ in this world.


In a world of limitations—where wants and needs are often not met—we manifest Christ through our work and our gifts.

To see ourselves as being in Christ, opens our eyes to the limitless God within our limited world. It opens the door for us to be participants, with Christ, in God’s ongoing work in this world. 


For those who are desperate to catch a glimpse of Hope, the flicker of this one candle is powerful. It says: I am not alone. 


On Saturday evenings, I send a copy of my sermon to Tanya Eiserer. She uploads the text so that people at home can read it while they’re listening. And, because she is a journalist extraordinaire, she reads the sermons several times and then she titles them.


Yesterday, she was frustrated that I didn’t directly say why I told the story about Dursey and his monthly boxes. There are times when I choose to leave loose ends in a sermon. I believe it allows the listener to make meaning of a sermon through their own life experience.


But as the day went on, I kept thinking about the metaphor and what it means to me.


Dursey’s response to the box was never really about the box itself or even the toys that were in it. Those physical things meant we would share time together. His excitement is a sign of his desire for relationship with me.



As we look toward the Incarnation of Christ, I wonder if the manger – and even Jesus of Nazareth – are physical signs to us of God’s enduring desire for relationship with you and me.   


 
[1] Battle, Michael; Everyday Connections: Reflections and Practices for Year B; p 3

By Paula Jefferson November 2, 2025
It has only been a few months since we last heard this particular Gospel reading. While I was driving up and down Highway 35 last week, I thought about how we might approach the text differently…especially on All Saints Sunday. This is the day we remember all the faithful people who have gone before us…ordinary and extraordinary folks who lived lives of love, mercy, courage and hope. I began with questions: Who is a saint? Who is not a saint? The second question is much easier to answer. We can all think of people throughout history who would definitely not fit any definition of sainthood. But the other question is harder. It brought to mind a character who wears a red suit, big white beard, moves around in a sleigh pulled by reindeer. Santa Claus is an icon of generosity. But is that the fullness of a saintly life? We often admire people for what shines outwardly: strength, beauty, power, fame, athleticism, traveling the globe on Christmas Eve delivering millions of gifts…because that stuff is easy to see and easy to glorify. But Luke is reminding us that true blessedness looks very different…it is found in the poor, the hungry, those who mourn. Blessed are those who are rejected or marginalized because they embody love…feeding the hungry, forgiving enemies, speaking truth to power. Paraphrasing Jesus: Blessed are you who are living in such a way that your life looks like mine. So what are the signs of a Christ-shaped--or saintly--life? To answer that, I drew from Jesus’s sermon on the Plain and a few well-known saints. 1. Humility —Jesus said, “Blessed are you who are poor, for yours is the kingdom of God.” Richard Foster devoted his life to guiding Christians into deeper spiritual formation. He described humility as the freedom to see ourselves truthfully, to rely fully on God, and to serve others without seeking recognition. [1] Humility reflects the blessedness of those who recognize their dependence on God. 2. Courage —Jesus said, “But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you.” Dietrich Bonhoeffer devoted his life to following Christ faithfully in a world that was in moral and political crisis. He said that moral courage is nurtured in the context of faithful Christian community. Courage is faithfully doing what is right, trusting God’s guidance, even when it costs us. [2] His moral courage exemplifies living faithfully in the face of evil. 3. Joy —Jesus said, “Blessed are you who hunger now, for you will be satisfied…Blessed are you who weep now, for you will laugh.” Henri Nouwen devoted his life to helping others encounter God’s love through prayer, presence, and compassionate service…especially alongside the most vulnerable among us. He said that joy does not simply happen to us. We have to choose joy and keep choosing it every day. It is a choice based in the knowledge that we belong to God and have found in God our refuge and our safety and that nothing, not even death, can take God away from us. [3] 4. Love and mercy in action — Jesus said, “Do to others as you would have them do to you.” Mother Teresa devoted her life to making Christ’s love tangible through service to the poorest, sickest, and most marginalized people in the world. For her, love was not an abstract idea—it was what you do with your hands and heart every day. She incarnated mercy in action, making tangible the call to bless and serve others. 5. Faithfulness in difficulty —Jesus said, “Blessed are you when people hate you, and when they exclude you, revile you, and defame you on account of the Son of Man.” Martin Luther King, Jr. devoted his life to pursuing justice and equality through nonviolence and love rooted in faith and moral conviction. He said, “The ultimate measure of a [person] is not where they stand in moments of comfort and convenience, but where they stand at times of challenge and controversy.” [4] His nonviolent witness and moral perseverance reflect Jesus’ promise of blessing for those who are persecuted and remain steadfast in their faith. There’s something of a paradox here that drew my attention. Each of these Christ-shaped lives emerged in response to real suffering, injustice or need. If Christianity had not moved through a period of superficial evangelism in the 20 th Century, we would not know Richard Foster. Without Adolf Hitler and the evil that surrounded him, we would not know Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s name. He would be a little-known academician teaching systematic theology. Without societies that toss aside people with disabilities, Henri Nouwen would have been a Roman Catholic priest none of us knew. Without human class systems that devalue whole groups of people, Mother Teresa would not be a household name. Without systemic racism, Martin Luther King, Jr. would have been a Baptist preacher in an Atlanta Church. We would not know his name. Each of these people responded to the wounds and injustices they saw in their own time in their own backyard. They took up the cross of love and carried it just a little farther. And I wonder if that quality is the benchmark of sainthood? As I look around this congregation, I see 100 saints: people who walk into classrooms every day, prepared to teach growing minds; people who walk with friends going through difficulties like loss of memory; people who feed the hungry: with meals on wheels, Union Gospel Mission, food pantries in Fort worth, and in leper colonies far away; people who make bed rolls for the homeless; Sunday School teachers who faithfully prepare to help children, youth, and adults grow in faith. People who extend hospitality to us and to St. Matthew’s and to families who gather here to celebrate the lives of their saints. Friends, we live in a very challenging era of American life. Everywhere we look, we see signs of division, misunderstanding, and an inability to work together for the common good. It is, I think, a reflection of a deep dysfunction in our culture….an incapacity to listen well, to negotiate in good faith, and to compromise for the sake of the whole. In times like this, the calling of the Church is extraordinary. We are called to embody the values of God’s reign: faithfulness, humility, courage, joy, and love---showing the world what it means to live differently, even when society struggles to do so. We, too, must take up the cross of love in our own lives, carrying it just a little farther each day. And as we do, we join the great communion of saints who have walked before us, who have borne witness to God’s love in times of trial, and who now cheer us on as we continue the journey. [1] Richard J Foster; Celebration of Discipline: The Path to Spiritual Growth [2] Dietrich Bonhoeffer; Life Together [3] Henri Nouwen; Spirituality & Practice [4] Martin Luther King, Jr; Strength to Love 1963
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